Hali Kil

MA, PhD

Investigator, BC Children's Hospital

Parents play an active and meaningful role in helping children cope with everyday challenges. As such, fostering positive and appropriate parenting practices can have a pivotal impact on children’s mental health and treatment outcomes. However, parenting is not an easy job and it is often difficult to consistently respond to a child in a way that aligns with one’s intentions. Dr. Kil’s research seeks to understand parents’ thoughts and behaviours in the context of children’s emotional and behavioural difficulties, with subthemes focused on parent-child mindfulness and multicultural family functioning. The goal of this research is to inform child mental health interventions to better target parent and family factors that can best help children flourish.

Academic Affiliations

  • Assistant Professor, Division of Developmental Psychology, Department of Psychology, Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences, Simon Fraser University
  • Research Theme: Brain, Behaviour & Development
  • Research Group(s): Mental Health and Behaviour; Pain and Stress

Contact Information

Location

Simon Fraser University, RCB 8309, 8888 University Drive, Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada, V5A 1S6

Should parents combine reasoning with firm control to nurture adolescent socialization? Comparing logical consequences with mild punishments.

Canadian Journal of Behavioural Science / Revue canadienne des sciences du comportement

Jean-Michel Robichaud and Genevive A. Mageau and Bart Soenens and Elien Mabbe and Hali Kil and Joey Frenette and Mathis Roy

DOI: 10.1037/cbs0000409

07 / 2025

Dynamic associations between daily acting with awareness and emotion regulation in individuals living with the effects of a stroke

Social Science and Medicine

Johnson, N.J. and Kil, H. and Pauly, T. and Ashe, M.C. and Madden, K.M. and Murphy, R.A. and Linden, W. and Gerstorf, D. and Hoppmann, C.A.

DOI: 10.1016/j.socscimed.2024.117635

When and how do parent-child acculturation gaps matter? A systematic review and recommendations for research and practice

Clinical Psychology Review

Shukla, S. and Smith, R.J. and Burik, A. and Browne, D.T. and Kil, H.

DOI: 10.1016/j.cpr.2025.102568

Capturing and Cultivating Change: Daily Variability in Parental Attributions and the Role of Mindfulness

Family Journal

Burik, A. and Johnson, N.J. and Kil, H.

DOI: 10.1177/10664807251384194

Parental apologies as a potential determinant of adolescents basic psychological needs satisfaction and frustration

Journal of Experimental Child Psychology

Robichaud, J.-M. and Mageau, G.A. and Kil, H. and McLaughlin, C. and Comeau, N. and Schumann, K.

DOI: 10.1016/j.jecp.2025.106204

Profiles of autonomy support and controlling parenting: Mixing the two predicts lower child-perceived autonomy support.

Journal of Family Psychology

Ahn, J.S. and Kil, H. and Ratelle, C.F. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1037/fam0001346

Should parents apologize to their adolescents to mend their parent"adolescent relationship? A multi-method, multi-phase investigation

Journal of Research on Adolescence

Robichaud, J.-M. and Schumann, K. and Kil, H. and Koestner, R. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1111/jora.70024

Mindfulness Across the Lifespan: Psychometric Properties and Age Invariance of the FFMQ-15

Mindfulness

Johnson, N.J. and Kil, H.

DOI: 10.1007/s12671-024-02511-6

Associations between socioeconomic status, child risk factors, and parenting during guided learning

Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology

Labelle, L. and Robichaud, J.-M. and Kil, H. and Roy, M. and Laurendeau, J. and Normandin, A.-L. and Parent, S. and Sguin, J.R. and Joussemet, M. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1016/j.appdev.2024.101633

Not all mindfulness is equal: certain facets of mindfulness have important implications for well-being and mental health across the lifespan

Frontiers in Psychology

Johnson, N.J. and Smith, R.J. and Kil, H.

DOI: 10.3389/fpsyg.2024.1347487

Systematic Integration of Multi-Informant Externalizing Ratings in Clinical Settings

Research on Child and Adolescent Psychopathology

Aitken, M. and Plamondon, A. and Krzeczkowski, J. and Kil, H. and Andrade, B.F.

DOI: 10.1007/s10802-023-01119-z

Suicidality risk in children and adolescents with externalizing disorders: symptoms profiles at high risk and the moderating role of dysregulated family relationships

European Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

Levy, T. and Kil, H. and Schachar, R.J. and Itzhaky, L. and Andrade, B.F.

DOI: 10.1007/s00787-023-02190-z

Physiological Dysregulation in Children With and Without Externalizing Difficulties: Novel Insights From Intensive Longitudinal Data

Research on Child and Adolescent Psychopathology

Kil, H. and Sibalis, A. and Colasante, T. and Jambon, M. and Acland, E. and Suri, A. and Malti, T. and Andrade, B.F.

DOI: 10.1007/s10802-023-01070-z

Parental apologies and adolescents' information management strategies: Social learning and self-determination perspectives

Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology

Robichaud, J.-M. and Bureau, J.S. and Zimmerman, G. and Mageau, G.A. and Schumann, K. and Kil, H. and Van Petegem, S.

DOI: 10.1016/j.appdev.2024.101674

Dysregulation profile in children of ethnoracially diverse at-risk families: Factor structure and longitudinal correlates

Development and Psychopathology

Kil, H. and Longpr, C. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1017/S095457942300007X

Dual process in parent"adolescent moral socialization: The moderating role of maternal warmth and involvement

Journal of Adolescence

Kil, H. and Gath, M. and Grusec, J.E.

DOI: 10.1002/jad.12156

How to Support Athlete Autonomy in University Sports: Coaches' Experience of the reROOT Program

Sport Psychologist

Lemelin, E. and Kil, H. and Petit, E. and Carpentier, J. and Forest, J. and Gadoury, S. and Richard, J.-P. and Joussemet, M. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1123/tsp.2022-0124

Mindful Parents, Mindful Children? Exploring the Role of Mindful Parenting

Parenting

Kil, H. and Lee, E. and Antonacci, R. and Grusec, J.E.

DOI: 10.1080/15295192.2022.2049601

Initial risk factors, self-compassion trajectories, and well-being outcomes during the COVID-19 pandemic: A person-centered approach

Frontiers in Psychology

Kil, H. and Lacourse, E. and Mageau, G.A. and Pelletier-Dumas, M. and Dorfman, A. and Stolle, D. and Lina, J.-M. and de la Sablonnire, R.

DOI: 10.3389/fpsyg.2022.1016397

Trajectories of coparenting quality across ethnically diverse and interethnic parents

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Kil, H. and Robichaud, J.-M. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1177/02654075221106997

Prosocial behavior

The Wiley-Blackwell Handbook of Childhood Social Development

Kil, H. and Grusec, J.E.

DOI: 10.1002/9781119679028.ch35

Exploring the Moderating Role of Child Callous-Unemotional Traits on the Link Between Parental Attributions and Parenting Behaviors

Child and Youth Care Forum

Arslan, D. and Kil, H. and Andrade, B.F.

DOI: 10.1007/s10566-021-09654-w

Autonomy support in disclosure and privacy maintenance regulation within romantic relationships

Personal Relationships

Kil, H. and Allen, M.-P. and Taing, J. and Mageau, G.A.

DOI: 10.1111/pere.12419

Mindfulness, Parental Attributions, and Parenting: the Moderating Role of Child Mental Health

Mindfulness

Kil, H. and Shukla, S. and Andrade, B.F.

DOI: 10.1007/s12671-022-01916-5

Parental Attributions in Ethnocultural Minority, Immigrant, and Country of Origin Parents: A Scoping Review and Call for Research

Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review

Hali Kil and Anneesa D. Singh and Anmol Bains and Terri Rodak and Brendan F. Andrade

DOI: 10.1007/s10567-021-00361-5

12 / 2021

Mindfulness and Parenting: A Meta-analysis and an Exploratory Meta-mediation

Mindfulness

Hali Kil and Rebecca Antonacci and Serena Shukla and Anthony De Luca

DOI: 10.1007/s12671-021-01720-7

11 / 2021

Transdiagnostic Associations Among Parental Causal Locus Attributions, Child Behavior and Psychosocial Treatment Outcomes: A Systematic Review

Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review

Hali Kil and Madison Aitken and Shanelle Henry and Ortenc Hoxha and Terri Rodak and Kathryn Bennett and Brendan F. Andrade

DOI: 10.1007/s10567-020-00341-1

06 / 2021

Links among mothers dispositional mindfulness, stress, perspective-taking, and mother-child interactions

Hali Kil and Joan Grusec

DOI: 10.31234/osf.io/2ums3

05 / 2021

Prosocial motivation as a mediator between dispositional mindfulness and prosocial behavior

Hali Kil and David O'Neill and Joan Grusec

DOI: 10.31219/osf.io/fdrmq

03 / 2021

Mindful parents, mindful children? Exploring the mediating role of mindful parenting

Hali Kil and Elizabeth Lee and Rebecca Antonacci and Joan Grusec

DOI: 10.31234/osf.io/j8h3c

02 / 2021

Psychometric Properties of the Parent Cognition Scale in a Clinical Sample of Parents of Children With Disruptive Behavior

Behavior Therapy

Magdalena Lysenko and Hali Kil and Lee Propp and Brendan F. Andrade

DOI: 10.1016/j.beth.2020.03.002

01 / 2021

Interethnic parenting experiences in raising mixed-ethnicity children: A systematic qualitative review

International Journal of Intercultural Relations

Kil, H. and Taing, J. and Mageau, G.

DOI: 10.1016/j.ijintrel.2021.08.013

Correction to: Mindfulness and Parenting: A Meta-analysis and an Exploratory Meta-mediation (Mindfulness, (2021), 12, 11, (2593-2612), 10.1007/s12671-021-01720-7)

Mindfulness

Kil, H. and Antonacci, R. and Shukla, S. and De Luca, A.

DOI: 10.1007/s12671-021-01755-w

Balanced, positive, and negative attributions: A preliminary investigation of a novel attribution coding system and associated affect and social behavior in children with disruptive behavior

Social Development

Hali Kil and Lee Propp and Anthony De Luca and Brendan F. Andrade

DOI: 10.1111/sode.12452

11 / 2020

Parental Attributions, Parenting Skills, and Readiness for Treatment in Parents of Children with Disruptive Behavior

Journal of Psychopathology and Behavioral Assessment

Hali Kil and Julia Martini and Brendan F. Andrade

DOI: 10.1007/s10862-020-09801-y

09 / 2020

Mindful Parenting Programs in Non-clinical Contexts: A Qualitative Review of Child Outcomes and Programs, and Recommendations for Future Research

Journal of Child and Family Studies

Hali Kil and Rebecca Antonacci

DOI: 10.1007/s10826-020-01714-4

05 / 2020

English Canadians cultural stereotypes of ethnic minority groups: Implications of stereotype content for acculturation ideologies and immigration attitudes

International Journal of Intercultural Relations

Hali Kil and Kimberly A. Noels and Dayuma I. Vargas Lascano and Oliver Schweickart

DOI: 10.1016/j.ijintrel.2019.03.005

05 / 2019

Maternal disclosure and adolescent prosocial behavior: The mediating roles of adolescent disclosure and coping

Social Development

Hali Kil and Joan E. Grusec and Maria Paula Chaparro

DOI: 10.1111/sode.12287

02 / 2018

Perspectives on parent discipline and child outcomes

International Journal of Behavioral Development

Joan E. Grusec and Tanya Danyliuk and Hali Kil and David ONeill

DOI: 10.1177/0165025416681538

06 / 2017

Ethnolinguistic Orientation and Language Variation: Measuring and Archiving Ethnolinguistic Vitality, Attitudes, and Identity

Language and Linguistics Compass

Kimberly A. Noels and Hali Kil and Yang Fang

DOI: 10.1111/lnc3.12105

11 / 2014

Multiethnic and multiracial children’s mental health and flourishing

Children with multiple ethnoracial backgrounds (multiethnic children) are often thought to experience heightened risk for emotional and behavioural disorders and related symptoms, largely owing to navigating their multiple ethnoracial identities and potentially conflicting associated cultural values. Parents of multiethnic children are also pathologized, thought to face similar issues in their couples’ relationship, leading to difficulties in parenting multiethnic children. In Dr. Kil’s lab, we aim to flip the narrative on these stereotypes held about interethnic parents and their multiethnic children, and refocus attention to multiethnic families’ flourishing. In recent work, we have found that interethnic couples and same-ethnicity couples are equally happy and satisfied with one another’s parenting roles (Kil, Robichaud & Mageau, 2022). In future work, we will test whether multiethnic children truly experience greater risk for emotional and behavioural difficulties compared to single-ethnicity children. We will also assess how specific parenting behaviours — such as supporting child autonomy — may foster multiethnic children’s psychological well-being.

Parenting cognitions and children’s mental health

Clinical psychology research points to the clear and distinguishable role of parents’ cognitions (their thought processes) on their parenting, children’s mental health, and children’s outcomes following treatment for emotional and behavioural disorders. Parents who lack self-confidence in their parenting or feel that they are not yet equipped to change their parenting tend not to participate in parent-child integrated treatments for children’s mental health, across various child diagnoses (Kil, Aitken et al., 2021). Our lab is currently working with mental health institutions in Ontario to create a novel assessment of parenting cognitions that can be efficiently and accessibly implemented in the intake process to better personalize mental health treatments for children and their families. Additionally, with evidence from our lab that parenting cognitions are culturally variable (Kil, Singh et al., 2021), we aim to identify, distinguish, and appropriately assess culturally diverse parenting cognitions, ultimately informing culturally sensitive family-based interventions for children’s mental health.

Mindfulness in the family: Parent and child mindfulness and family well-being

Mindfulness can be defined as present-focused and nonjudgmental attention and awareness. Dr. Kil’s lab investigates how parents’ mindfulness may be linked to children’s mental health, well-being, and even children’s own mindfulness. Our recent work indicates that parents who are mindful tend to have children who are mindful, suggesting that there may exist highly
mindful families (Kil, Lee et al., 2022). In future work, we will assess whether parents’ mindfulness may be targeted in children’s mental health services, with the goal to improve parenting cognitions surrounding parents’ self-confidence to change their parenting and their children’s control over misbehaviours.

Grants

2021-2023, Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council, What about the multicultural children? Identifying parenting processes that can foster positive outcomes in children of mixed ethnic and cultural origins, Principal Investigator, $74 263 (CAD)

2019-2021, Discovery Fund Seed Grant, Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, Optimizing treatment for depressed parents and children with emotional and behavioral disorders, Co-Investigator, $200 000 (CAD)

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